Yiziphi izinzuzo zokuzigcina ufanelekile? Ukufaneleka kanye nokungabi namandla, ukuphikelela kwesikhathi eside, izimpilo ezimbili ezihluke ngokuphelele. Namathela ukufaneleka, usuku olulodwa, inyanga eyodwa, unyaka owodwa, iminyaka emithathu, lezi zinguquko ku-node yesikhathi, hhayi nje ukuqoqwa kwezinombolo, kodwa futhi nobufakazi bokuguqulwa ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo.

Uma uqala usuku lwakho lokuqala lokufaneleka, ungakwazi kuphela ukuqedela ukunyakaza okulula okumbalwa, inhliziyo yakho iyagijima, uyajuluka, futhi uzizwe sengathi awukwazi ukuphefumula.

Ngemuva kwakho konke ukuzivocavoca, kuzoba nokubambezeleka kwemisipha, futhi umzimba wonke uzozizwa ungakhululekile, okwenza abantu bafune ukuyeka ukuqeqeshwa. Abantu abaningi ngeke bahlale izinsuku ezimbalwa futhi bakhethe ukuyeka, bambalwa abantu abanamathela kukho.

Ngemva kwezinyanga ezintathu zokuzivocavoca okuqhubekayo, uqala ukujwayela isigqi sokuqina, futhi kuba nokuthuthuka okuphawulekayo kokuqina komzimba nokukhuthazela. Imigomo ebibonakala ingafinyeleleki manje ibonakala ingafinyeleleka.

Uzothola ukuthi amafutha emzimbeni wakho ayancipha kancane kancane, amaphesenti amafutha omzimba aqala ukuncipha, umthwalo wesisindo uqala ukuncipha, umzimba uqondile, futhi wonke umuntu uveza ukuzethemba.

Qhubeka nokuzilolonga izinyanga eziyisi-6, usuvalelise wena uqobo, ugcwele ubungqabavu obusha nobungqabavu. Wena kusukela entweni yokuzilibazisa yokuvivinya umzimba ukuze unake kancane ukuqeqeshwa kwamandla, wena kusukela ekuphishekeleni isisindo esijwayelekile, umzimba omncane, ukuphishekela imisipha yesisu yabafana, unxantathu ohlanekezelwe, izinqulu zamantombazane, umugqa wejazi lokhalo, ushintsho ku-aesthetics, kodwa futhi nokuphishekela okuqhubekayo kwesibalo esihle.

Ngemva konyaka wokujima, isimiso sakho sokufaneleka sesiyingxenye yempilo yakho. Awusadingi ukugcizelela, kodwa ngokwemvelo ohlelweni, izinsuku ezimbalwa ngaphandle kokuzivocavoca ngeke zikhululeke.

Wavula kancane igebe nontanga yakho, ukuphila kwakho kwaba ukuzithiba, kude nasebusuku kakhulu, ukuphila kokudla okungenamsoco, ukuphila kwaba nempilo, kwaba namandla futhi kwaba mncane.

Qhubeka nokusebenza iminyaka emi-3, usube umshayeli wokuqina, uzokhuthaza abantu abaseduze kwakho ukuthi banyakaze. Unabangane abaningi abanomqondo ofanayo embuthanweni wakho wokuxhumana nabantu, abakhuthazana ukuthi bathuthuke ndawonye, ​​futhi ugcina umzimba wakho njengosemusha, imisipha yakho iqinile futhi inamandla, futhi umzimba wakho umuhle.

Ngaphakathi, unamandla aqinile nokuzithiba, ukwazi ukubhekana nezinselele nobunzima bempilo, futhi udlubulundele ukuze ube inguqulo yakho engcono.